I got a nice compliment this morning

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I was taking the dogs out for a walk this morning and met two neighbours. One of them said, “You do have a nice straight back.” The other woman said, “Yes, I’ve often noticed what good posture you have.”

I’m so sad that theseĀ  compliments gave me a real lift even though they came from two elderly women and not two hunky guys. Oh well, when you reach 60, you have to take your compliments where you can find them. The sad truth is that at my age there are very few ’suitable’ men that are attractive. Who wants a man that has to take his teeth out to clean them or needs to clip the hair in his nose and ears more often than the little that remains on his head?

As part of the baby boomer generation, I don’t feel my age. I’m still 28 inside – probably the age I had most fun. I haven’t started putting a blue rinse on my hair but I do use ultra violet instead and a colour called Dragons Blood on my nails. I’ve always been outrageous and dressed in my own style and I continue to do that.

Thank goodness I lost the weight I put on in my 50s. If I was fat, I’d look really ridiculous! That was the only time I dressed like other people because I didn’t want to be noticed. I hated being overweight.

I can remember when I was a child and teenager and somebody of 60 seemed ancient. They dressed in old-fashioned ways and just behaved like old people. At least the ones I knew did. I guess being in our 60s has crept up on my generation. We never thought it would happen to us and now we reject the idea of being old.

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  1. Tony  •  Sep 3, 2009 @8:06 pm

    Well that was a nice complement wasn’t it. You don’t get many of those these days.
    One thing I noticed since returning from the USA is that most people you pass in the street look away. In the USA you would often exchange a quick “Hello” or “How Are You”, even to strangers. Here you just ignore each other.
    I have been busy commenting on neighbours gardens, dogs, or whatever, in the hope of breaking through some of the barriers.

  2. Stazjia  •  Sep 4, 2009 @8:11 am

    I live on the edge of a small town and people here are friendly and they do expect to exchange greetings with people in the street and maybe a comment about the weather. In the 18 months I’ve lived here I’ve got to know quite a lot of people well enough to stop for a chat when I meet them in the street.

    When I lived in south London for 18 years, I hardly knew anybody locally. The people I knew and were friends were scattered throughout London and we met by arrangement. If I bumped into one of them in a street, it was an amazing coincidence.

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