Rocket Moms: Why is the Group Controversial?

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Who would have thought a group for women on Squidoo would be controversial and provoke discussion and argument? That’s what has happened over the last couple of weeks.

Lens of the Day (LOTD) on Squidoo has recently been featuring Rocket Moms lenses for a fixed period (I think it was ten days). Of course, this means people who aren’t RM members stood no chance of making LOTD with any of their lenses.

In one way, I can see their point, particularly as this is the only group on the network that is officially recognised by management.  Maybe we could all say, “fair enough, maybe that isn’t right” but it seems that this was just the tip of an iceberg of resentment against RM. Women with no children argue they can’t join although they are assured they can.

Men obviously can’t join and many argue vociferously that RM provides a platform to present lenses and the RM community are so supportive that visits follow announcements in the forum of new lenses. They are also convinced that members give each other five stars, so helping to improve lens rank, regardless of quality.

All I can say about the last point is that I’ve never given a fellow Rocket Mom five stars if the lens didn’t deserve it. I’ve never given any lens an undeserved number of stars and I use the full range from one to five stars on lenses depending on their quality. I also don’t give any stars at all to some lenses including those made by RMs.

There are plenty of opportunities for Squids to join groups even if these aren’t officially recognised by Squidoo. Many of them are supportive, though, and provide a place to put links to new lenses. Many members of these groups also visit the lenses and give stars and leave comments, if they deserve them.

Megan Casey of Squidoo has announced that Rocket Moms was set up as an experiment and its great success means they intend to start more official groups. When that happens, we shall have to see if the people who shouted the loudest are prepared to join them and play active roles in the groups.

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6 Comments

6 Comments

  1. lakeerieartists  •  Jan 16, 2010 @12:02 am

    Personally I think that no matter what happens, people will complain about it. RocketMoms is successful so it is getting a lot of complaints.

    I think that RocketMoms has been a successful experiment for those who have participated, but extra special treatment? I don’t think so. No more than any other group on or off Squidoo.

  2. Stazjia  •  Jan 16, 2010 @10:59 am

    I totally agree with you. What irritates me quite a lot is that some people who complain bitterly then say that they don’t join groups anyway.

    RocketMoms works because the organisers put in a lot of effort and, importantly, so do the members. It’s not a question of special treatment but of people making their own luck by working hard. In turn, Squidoo has responded positively.

  3. AJ  •  Jan 17, 2010 @4:11 pm

    This is a very well thought out post. I must admit that in a community that depends so much on volunteers to provide support to members, whenever anyone says “Why cant we have…..”, my thinking is often “Well, what’s stopping you”!

  4. I don’t know much about rocket moms. Seen them around. Never knew that they allow only moms. Yes the name is obvious but still a mom don’t necessarily mean biological..hehe Anyways thanks for sharing this tidbit.

  5. Kathy McGraw  •  Jan 19, 2010 @8:37 pm

    I was shocked at the animosity I saw recently over Rocket Moms! Some people reminded me of little kids and the whole “he has more than I do” fights.

  6. Addy Bell  •  Jan 21, 2010 @3:04 am

    So, just to clarify … women who ARE NOT moms can join RM?

    Either way, it doesn’t bother me. I’m not a parent, but I darn well know that mothers have burdens on their time and energy I can’t begin to imagine. I also know that mothers with small children are some of the most isolated people in our society. If they can find a group that supports them in any way, I think it’s a wonderful thing.

    What I see in this, having a bit of community organizing experience, is that the animosity seems to derive from a sense of entitlement. Some people are unaware that they have always been given certain privileges because of their background. They expect support and recognition as if it were their due. When they see something like RM, it doesn’t occur to them that it’s essentially a grassroots effort that only works because the people in it make it work.

    And because of that, they expect support structures to be created and provided for them, instead of doing the work of creating and running it themselves.

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